Interesting thoughts today  

Posted by: Maria

Several things are going on in my mind today.

First, My SIL who is being treated for rectal cancer is having a really rough time of it right now since she is back on her chemo after the removal of some of her rectum and the resection. This round is "less" chemo than the first but she is so week from the first, plus the two surgeries that all she wants to do is sleep. I know that "this too shall pass" but right now, she and her entire family are having a rough time which brings me to my next set of thoughts.

My niece who has been in foster care since she was 16 graduated HS this year, turned 18 and has now driven cross country with her BF to attend school in PA. She got a bunch of scholarships and had saved some money but has made some decisions that have really altered her projected financial situation. First, my brothers are now involved with getting her a car. Apparently my one brother isn't going to be content with just any car either which is rather annoying since she only has a 4 mile drive to school each day. She has also decided to not live on campus but has found an apartment with the aforementioned BF and so that is even more money. Instead of living with my youngest brother as they had planned on doing this summer, they moved into a rental property that my other brother owns so now they have food and other living expenses this summer they hadn't planned on. In short, my brother (at least one of them) feels that I am not pulling my share of all these extra costs. Funny, when I saw my niece this summer none of this was mentioned and no one has given me any insight on this situation until last night when I was pretty much told I needed to come up with $2000 to help defray those costs. ???? Am I supposed to pull that out of my ear or what? I was out of work for 2 years before I went to work for Sam's and had only been at that for 8 months before my husband got laid off in January. He only went back to work full time a couple of weeks ago. We are living pay check to pay check right now. I don't see why just because she (or someone) decided that this is how she wants to do things that we all need to support her for 4 years while she does them. She is planning on working but has no job right now. I know that we should fill the gap for her parents but I have no clue how I am going to do that when I am fighting to keep our heads above water here. Needless to say, I am living with this huge knot in my stomach right now epsecially since my brother pretty much told me that I should forego my upcoming trip to the family reunion in NY in 2 weeks and use that money to help Liz. I look forward to this trip every year. It si the only time this summer that I will get to see my family. This is my major relaxation for the summer. I am not going to give this up. Tough nuts.

Memory Lane via books  

Posted by: Maria

I was reading a post on a BB about someone re-reading Nancy Drew books she had saved since a kid (since she was out of anything new to read) and she really found them boring. My jaw dropped. I am without a doubt a mega Bibliophile. I read nearly every day and I am not picky about it either although I have to admit that trashy romance novels are not my thing. I loved Nancy Drews as a child and still do. Although I haven't read the more recent ones, I have re-read mine dozens of times. I have some of the original ones too. Anyway, this post got a friend and I talking about books were read and loved as kids so I started looking for some of these on the Internet and boy oh boy there is just a treasure trove out there. It also seemed that when I remembered one, sometimes that lead to another.

I was lucky as a child that I lived within walking distance of a library. At the time, the limit a child to check out was 5. I remember one summer going to the library several times a week to get books and the librarian didn't believe I was reading all of them so she started quizzing me. She ended up raising my limit to 10 books before too long. :-)

Cicero said A room without books is like a body without a soul. I think that the books I have read over my lifetime have shaped me as surely as the ocean shapes a coastline. It is amazing to me the number of books I remember reading as a child so here are a few of them and links to some information about them!

Nancy Drew Mysteries I still want to believe that River Heights is in NJ! It made things so much more real!!
Donna ParkerSummer camp, boy friends and being a bridesmaid!
Misty of Chincoteague DEVOURED these one summer sitting in what passed for a tree house!
All of a Kind Family Who knew I was learning about the Jewish Culture!
No Children, No Pets I got this book from a weekly reader ad!
A Lantern in Her Hand I still remember buying this book with my birthday money from the Scholastic Book Mobile that came to my middle school! :-)I recently found a re-print copy and have re-read it and STILL love it! Maybe one of my hands down all time favorite books!
Little House on the Prairie
Janet Lennon of the Lennon Sisters had a series of books that I loved but I haven't found a good page about them yet!

I know I will think of other books I loved. I will add them to a list. Why don't you add yours as well?

I would be the most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves.

Anna Quindlen

Well look who today's quote is from  

Posted by: Maria

Ben Franklin... Honesty is the best policy. Boy oh boy, it would be good if some of our public servants remembered that one wouldn't it? And not just public servants either!

Other favorites from Ben:

A learned blockhead is a greater blockhead than an ignorant one.

An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.

Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain and most fools do.

Beer is living proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy.

Red, White and Blue  

Posted by: Maria


This came from a friend and I just love it!! July the 4th is my FAVORITE holiday. God Bless the U.S.A!

NO REFUGE COULD SAVE : BY DR. ISAAC ASIMOV


I was once asked to speak at a luncheon. Taking my life in my hands, I announced I was going to sing our national anthem -- all four stanzas. This was greeted with loud groans. One man closed the door to the kitchen, where the noise of dishes and cutlery was loud and distracting. "Thanks, Herb," I said.

"That's all right," he said. "It was at the request of the kitchen staff"

I explained the background of the anthem and then sang all four stanzas. Let me tell you, those people had never heard it before -- or had never really listened. I got a standing ovation. But it was not me; it was the anthem.

More recently, while conducting a seminar, I told my students the story of the anthem and sang all four stanzas. Again there was a wild ovation and prolonged applause. And again, it was the anthem and not me.

So now let me tell you how it came to be written.

In 1812, the United States went to war with Great Britain, primarily over freedom of the seas. We were in the right. For two years, we held off the British, even though we were still a rather weak country. Great Britain was in a life and death struggle with Napoleon. In fact, just as the United States declared war, Napoleon marched off to invade Russia. If he won, as everyone expected, he would control Europe, and Great Britain would be isolated. It was no time for her to be involved in an American war.

At first, our seamen proved better than the British. After we won a battle on Lake Erie in 1813, the American commander, Oliver Hazard Perry, sent the message, "We have met the enemy and they are ours." However, the weight of the British navy beat down our ships eventually. New England, hard-hit by a tightening blockade, threatened secession.

Meanwhile, Napoleon was beaten in Russia and in 1814 was forced to abdicate. Great Britain now turned its attention to the United States, launching a three-pronged attack.

The northern prong was to come down Lake Champlain toward New York and seize parts of New England.

The southern prong was to go up the Mississippi, take New Orleans and paralyze the west.

The central prong was to head for the mid-Atlantic states and then attack Baltimore, the greatest port south of New York. If Baltimore was taken, the nation, which still hugged the Atlantic coast, could be split in two. The fate of the United States, then, rested to a large extent on the success or failure of the central prong.

The British reached the American coast, and on August 24, 1814, took Washington, D.C. Then they moved up the Chesapeake Bay toward Baltimore. On September 12, they arrived and found 1,000 men in Fort McHenry, whose guns controlled the harbor. If the British wished to take Baltimore, they would have to take the fort.

On one of the British ships was an aged physician, William Beanes, who had been arrested in Maryland and brought along as a prisoner. Francis Scott Key, a lawyer and friend of the physician, had come to the ship to negotiate his release.

The British captain was willing, but the two Americans would have to wait. It was now the night of September 13, and the bombardment of Fort McHenry was about to start.

As twilight deepened, Key and Beanes saw the American flag flying over Fort McHenry. Through the night, they heard bombs bursting and saw the red glare of rockets. They knew the fort was resisting and the American flag was still flying. But toward morning the bombardment ceased, and a dread silence fell. Either Fort McHenry had surrendered and the British flag flew above it, or the bombardment had failed and the American flag still flew.

As dawn began to brighten the eastern sky, Key and Beanes stared out at the fort, trying to see which flag flew over it. He and the physician must have asked each other over and over, "Can you see the flag?"

After it was all finished, Key wrote a four stanza poem telling the events of the night. Called "The Defense of Fort McHenry," it was published in newspapers and swept the nation. Someone noted that the words fit an old English tune called, "To Anacreon in Heaven" -- a difficult melody with an uncomfortably large vocal range. For obvious reasons, Key's work became known as "The Star Spangled Banner," and in 1931 Congress declared it the official anthem of the United States.

Now that you know the story, here are the words. Presumably, the old doctor is speaking. This is what he asks Key:

Oh! say, can you see, by the dawn's early light, What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming? Whose broad stripes and bright stars, through the perilous fight, O'er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming? And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air, Gave proof thru' the night that our flag was still there. Oh! say, does that star-spangled banner yet wave, O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave?

("Ramparts," in case you don't know, are the protective walls or other elevations that surround a fort.) The first stanza asks a question. The second gives an answer:

On the shore, dimly seen thru' the mist of the deep Where the foe's haughty host in dread silence reposes, What is that which the breeze, o'er the towering steep. As it fitfully blows, half conceals, half discloses? Now it catches the gleam of the morning's first beam, In full glory reflected, now shines on the stream 'Tis the star-spangled banner. Oh! long may it wave O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave!

"The towering steep" is again, the ramparts. The bombardment has failed, and the British can do nothing more but sail away, their mission a failure. In the third stanza I feel Key allows himself to gloat over the American triumph. In the aftermath of the bombardment, Key probably was in no mood to act otherwise? During World War I when the British were our Staunchest allies, this third stanza was not sung. However, I know it, so here it is:

And where is that band who so vauntingly swore

That the havoc of war and the battle's confusion A home and a country should leave us no more? Their blood has washed out their foul footstep's pollution. No refuge could save the hireling and slave From the terror of flight, or the gloom of the grave, And the star-spangled banner in triumph doth wave O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave.

(The fourth stanza, a pious hope for the future, should be sung more slowly than the other three and with even deeper feeling):

Oh! thus be it ever, when freemen shall stand Between their loved homes and the war's desolation, Blest with victory and peace, may the Heaven - rescued land Praise the Power that hath made and preserved us a nation. Then conquer we must, for our cause is just, And this be our motto --"In God is our trust." And the star-spangled banner in triumph doth wave O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave.

I hope you will look at the national anthem with new eyes. Listen to it, the next time you have a chance, with new ears. Pay attention to the words. And don't let them ever take it away ... not even one word of it.

Mark Twain...  

Posted by: Maria


I was glad to see that today's quote came from Mark Twain. I love his stories and his wit.

Do the right thing. It will gratify some people and astonish the rest.


That is one of my favorites. Here are some others.

A person who won't read has no advantage over one who can't read.

Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.

Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.

Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society.

It is better to deserve honors and not have them than to have them and not deserve them.

It's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.


I guess that's it for now. Just something to think about! :-)